it's alright hon, was just kinda a shock... but i'm way out out of the loop on things anyway so i'm getting used to it. hell, i didn't find out ogre had died until about 5 months after the fact, so 3 days was pretty prompt. just wish i could have gotten away for the wake at the manor... was a pretty up and down night trying to be cheerful with the rest of the group here when i knew that i was missing that.