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http://www.cnn.com/2005/WORLD/americas/12/26/canada.swingers.reut/index.html

Monday, December 26, 2005; Posted: 8:53 p.m. EST (01:53 GMT)

MONTREAL, Quebec (Reuters) -- On a recent night out on the town, Michel and Chantal Delbecchi left their suburban Montreal home and drove to the L'Orage Club in the city's east end, where they had sex with a couple they had never met before.

The Delbecchis, husband and wife since 1978, are "echangistes," French for "swingers," who for the past 21 years have been visiting clubs such as L'Orage (Thunderstorm) to have consensual sex in a group with one or more other people.

For future outings, they will no longer have to fear police will raid the club and arrest them for being in a "bawdy house," a place where prostitution or acts of public indecency take place.

In a landmark decision Wednesday, the Supreme Court of Canada lifted a ban on swingers' clubs, ruling that group sex among consenting adults is neither prostitution nor a threat to society.

The ruling sparked outrage, largely in English-speaking parts of Canada, where critics said it would erode limits on indecency or obscenity, encourage prostitution and even contribute to the corruption of minors.

In the mainly French-speaking and predominantly Catholic province of Quebec, however, the decision caused barely a ripple of adverse reaction. Newspaper editorialists fumed in Toronto but largely yawned in Montreal.

Swingers across Canada cheered the ruling, especially those in Quebec, where adherents go to clubs not only to meet others like them but also to have sex on the premises.

"It might make it easier for others interested in swinging to take the next step and visit a club," said Michel, 48, huddled next to Chantal, 43, on a sofa at the dimly lit L'Orage.

Michel, who works at an outlet of warehouse retailer Costco, and Chantal, on leave from her job at a school bus operator, said most swingers are not comfortable in the public spotlight.

"We have a few friends who were afraid to come out to a club because they were worried about how a raid might affect their work or family situation," said Chantal.

For L'Orage club owner Jean-Paul Labaye, the ruling is vindication after a seven-year court battle that began with a 1998 police raid in which he and 40 of his patrons were arrested for being in a bawdy house.

"Everyone was shocked that we would be treated like bandits," Labaye said. "I vowed to defend myself and their cause if that was their desire and that is what I did."

Labaye, a portly and jovial 46-year-old native of France, said swingers celebrated the Supreme Court victory with a late-night party at L'Orage.

In an interview the next day at the club, Labaye apologized for not being able to show a reporter and photographer the upstairs rooms where groups have sex because the housekeeping service had not yet cleaned them.

The club is housed in an elegant but aging two-story house on a busy street. The ground floor has mismatched sofas and chairs, scant lighting and framed photographs on the walls depicting scenes of mild sexual bondage.

The club has no license to sell alcoholic beverages but sports a small bar that offers coffee and caffeine-loaded soft drinks.

Labaye said he hopes a group of Florida investors will help him move into swankier digs, which in addition to the requisite private rooms will have something resembling a refined cigar lounge.

Club rules will be the same -- no illicit drugs or alcohol abuse, and when it comes to propositions for sex, a reply of no means no.

In the meantime, the swinger soirees will continue at L'Orage and at least two dozen similar clubs in Quebec, including one in Gatineau, just opposite the Ottawa River from the imposing stone hulk of the Supreme Court building.

Labaye and the Delbecchis, who have three adult sons, are preparing for important changes in their personal lives.

Labaye plans to marry his girlfriend in Paris in May.

As for Michel and Chantal, a 25-year-old woman has become their mutual lover, and all three plan to move in together early next year. Despite that new relationship, the Delbecchis expect to continue exchanging sex partners in Quebec clubs.

Said Michel: "At the club, we have sex with people. At home, we make love."

Copyright 2005 Reuters. All rights reserved.

Date: 2005-12-27 02:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mightyflorist.livejournal.com
Just skimmed by this on my friends page (on dialup, I tend to open long posts for reading after I'm disconnected).

Somehow I managed to read "lubed soft drinks". Neato.

Date: 2005-12-27 04:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chiefseamonkey.livejournal.com
Heh. I've never understood the whole "sex between consenting adults is illegal" thing. Of course, KC is HUGE with swingers. Not so hot on evolution though. Doesn't make much sense.

Date: 2005-12-27 08:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] draggonlaady.livejournal.com
love the icon :)

there are a lot of laws that don't make sense to me.. and your clever attempt to get me to move to KC will not work :P

Date: 2005-12-28 06:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chiefseamonkey.livejournal.com
Damn. But how come you're getting me to move closer to you? How's that work, huh?

Date: 2005-12-29 12:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] draggonlaady.livejournal.com
that was entirely your own idea, you can't blame me for encouraging something that makes sense ;)

Date: 2005-12-27 11:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] black-bangles.livejournal.com
somehow i've always found large groups of people having sex repulsive,.. however I hate almost everyone and everything that humans do, so that doesn't surprise much- Maybe better luck next time God! Wooooot!

Date: 2005-12-30 06:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadowerealm.livejournal.com
Wow, this is awesome! This club is almost directly across the street from my senior T'ai Chi instructors studio. They were making a big deal about it in the paper when I was there last, I'm glad to see they finally came to their senses. The clubs are pretty discerning about who they allow to become members and everyone has to have a medical check up. It's a great way for polyamorous couples to meet safely.

Of course I only know this from people who are members, single aren't allowed.

Date: 2005-12-31 02:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] draggonlaady.livejournal.com
No singles at all? or only single men? i thought a lot of them allowed single women...

by the by, do i know you?

Date: 2005-12-31 09:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadowerealm.livejournal.com
If I remember correctly L'Orage was couples only, it was just over a year ago when I was last in Montreal though and my French isn't so good. I may still have the article laying around here somewhere though. There website is here but they don't appear to have much there anymore. I swear they used to have information about the club on their website. Oh wait..here it is..no sorry that's part of the site that's being reconstructed here's a way to bypass the construction and get to the dirt. They've changed some things in the rules, singles who are swingers can join now! :)

We haven't met before, I found your LJ through someone else and was to excited about this post not to say anything.

Date: 2005-12-31 06:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] draggonlaady.livejournal.com
well, happy to meetcha and feel free to speak up more often

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